Wow, what a sad commentary and a stark reminder to try and hold on to Chivalry and Honor. Outdated under rated and, I guess Patriarchal ? But, at least it is a code, offering a sense of rightness and reminder to always be vigilant over the worst type of male behaviors.
I am so sickened this is such common behavior among males.
Especially fueled by alcohol.
I can't feel what you felt but can certainly get a sense of how frightening this scene was.
I will say, you are brave person and much respect to you.
I benefited from reading this piece, as will any man who reads it with honest self reflection.